1/3 Bad, 2/3 Good

It is so much easier doing something bad than to do something good. But no matter I thought every person would have known what are the limits of the online world.

I've been to all sorts of forums, active, quiet, huge, and some even with people of ALL sorts you'll be just frightened. The worst I've seen is this huge forum called GaiaOnline. But do not mistake me, I still love GaiaOnline. It's the SMALL SMALL TINY percentage of arseholes in there who are just out to make lives of others MISERABLE. They post with the sole intent of causing harm, hurt and anger to others. Either through vulgar words full of malice, posting of negative graphical pictures, lying, cheating etc, they do evil.

But then I thought it's because it being an INTERNATIONAL forum, and having almost 2 million members, which means even 0.01% is already 200 people. ANd if these 200 people ACTIVELY get up to mischief ... moderators like myself are SUPER busy. I get like at least 1 scam report and several harrassment reports a day. Thankfully I'm now on a break. My eyes have been spared TONNES of goatse, tubgirl* and non stop complaints. (* DO NOT GO AND SEARCH UP THESE TWO TERMS! You'll regret it for the rest of your life!)

BLACK BLACK HEART

Singapore forums I've been to have been nothing but politeness, civilness and everyone is friendly never wanting to step on others' toes. BUT ... haiz. Just from the past 2 days alone I've been the listening ear of a friend who never posted to defend herself, while I've to stare as a thread exploded from 1-20+ pages in only an afternoon with most posts from 3 persons accusing someone of theft. I didn't care who was in the right or wrong, what I saw was, vulgarities, uncivil behaviour that similar to a hooligan or someone of unsavoury status, and shooting the accused without proof expect words from their own mouths saying it happened. This thread is just one of the many posts which has been posted with the intent of causing distress to another member/s of the forum. Already they had caused the banning of another party who thought that the case was already settled but the group brought it up again with words of threat. You can say they love making a scene and creating mountains out of molehills.

Part of my Complaint PM :
"Please analyse this growing situation of "bishing" and "uncivil" behaviour from members. It is considered quite unsightly and breeds a very unwelcoming feel to the forums for both current and new members."

I just couldn't stand reading such posts anymore from SO CALLED CIVIL SINGAPOREANS (who sadly are fellow dog lovers) so I sent a complaint to both the admin and general mod. Action was taken swiftly and they were warned and their thread blocked. But they were unrepentant of their uncouth behaviour and continued their "fun", that's what they called it, FUN! Sheesh. Such sadists they are!!! Admin banned all their ASSES!!!! HAHAHA! But even the accused was banned. I cannot say the accused was totally innocent. But the focus here was not the fact of right or wrong, but of their behaviour. Guess the parties had their part to play in this fiasco. I wish I could post what the great admin posted but the thread is gone. But I remember it started off as "I cannot believe that such behaviour exists ..."

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Okay bad things aside ... here's what I've been doing these few days. Well, beside studying for my exams which start next week.

(Yan, HX, Cyn, PS : Thank you for tempting me with thoughts of clubbing. It's nice poring over my books while I think about you all enjoying yourselves on the dancefloor. You all wait! Once my papers over I am gonna jio you all out EVERY WEEK!)

I've been also gathering info stuff for my wedding dinner. Hee hee. So far here are the pending details.

Date : Friday or Sunday in January

I want 6th Jan or 8th ... just because it's VERY near our birthdays (7th and 9th Jan)

Venue : Orchard Hotel (most likely liao)

Initially we wanted Sentosa. Sigh but that little dream bubble has popped. They do not have the important points that we want. No free flow beer, HAVE TO PAY for WINE corkage like $25 per bottle!!!, and seriously parking arrangements is hellish! I kept thinking how to get round that but ... nothing can be done. Hotel also cannot help much.

But Orchard Hotel provides free flow beer and a bottle of red wine free for each table confirmed. Hee hee ... guys and gals, drink as much as you like! Hard liquor is also free corkage so I'll be bringing my hubby's stash of alcohol. My dad is stocking up too, hehehehe.

So people har!! My DEAR friends hor!!! You know who you are!! NTU GIRLS AND GUYS!!! YAN, VA, YAYA, MICH, LING, PS, ADE, FIFI, JAQ etc. You all better MAKE YOURSELF FREE HOR!!!! Cannot reject my RED BOMB!!! Muahahahaha!!!

This Saturday me and hubby going to Orchard Hotel for a little Wedding Fair. Hee hee. For $20nett per couple. Got a mini bridal gowns fashion show, lucky draw and high tea!!!

I've also been surfing around for wedding designs. Hee hee.

I love the straps and the first two and the front cutting on that 3rd pic.

I cannot decide which type of skirt I like!!! I love BOTH the poofy wide skirt and yet love the long flowy close cut skirt! Maybe I'll do both! muahaha. Poor hubby. *evil grin*

A few more designs that I love!!!


I just find this little girl TOO CUTE!

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Okay ... end of entry ... but wait ... how can an entry be complete without .. ZHU!!!
<-- I drew the border myself!